Life With Lexis Kai

Welcome back, family!

I want to apologize for falling off right after announcing my Winter Arc. The main takeaway is to recommit to your goals. Honestly, it’s not so much that I fell off; it’s more that I became too focused on perfection instead of just doing the work. Speaking of “doing the work”, this is the perfect segue into today’s post. 

Who can speak on my expertise if I never put in the effort to pursue the life of my dreams? It’s time to materialize the “Live Life Lavish” mantra I claim to live by. With the development of this new site, you can expect more content, resources, and ways for me to share my journey. I’m allowing my brand to grow and, with it, my community and impact.

Reflection on 2024 WOTY: Expansion

At the beginning of 2024, I wrote a blog post about my word of the year and reflected on my previous word choices from years prior. (Read that post here!) My word for 2024 was expansion, and over the past few days, I have been reflecting heavily on how this intention played out this year. I’m not going to lie; I expected this expansion to be material. I wanted a larger salary, a bigger house, and more tangible material things. Still, during a recent drive, I realized what type of expansion I got. 

I’ve talked a lot recently about the vibration of things and how they align with the frequency of what you want, your desired reality, or your perfect life, whatever you want to call it. The expansion I received this year wasn’t physical. It was internal. This is the key to how things really happen. The internal expansion allowed me to do more, be more, and believe I can have more. To first be able to materialize this version of reality, I had to be able to put myself in the mind state, emotional state, and overall energetic vibration of the lifestyle I wanted. That also required my actions to change, and I had to follow where my desired reality was taking me. Overall, the expansion was within my self-concept, self-image, what I believed was possible for myself, and how I thought and, more importantly, felt about myself.

I cried when I realized this, y’all. It wasn’t disappointing, but it affirmed that I’m on the right path. I’m doing the right things. I’m actually in alignment. Everything is working for my highest good, and ultimately, as above, so below; as below, so above. I needed to internally and energetically correct myself and grow my consciousness, understanding, and belief in what I see myself having. Notice I said what I see myself having, not what I want or desire. I’m aligning myself vibrationally with that of my spiritual eye, beyond what holds true in my physical realm, and most importantly, as God sees fit and has already designed for my life. I have the life God created for me and promised me, which is evident in my existence!

Don’t believe me? Try Romans 12:2, “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind. Then you will be able to test and approve what God’s will is—his good, pleasing, and perfect will.”

2025 Word of the Year

I’m going over on my word count already. This was supposed to be sweet, short, and straight to the point. But I had to tell y’all the secret, which isn’t even really a secret. It’s just so simple that we try to complicate it. So here’s finally what you’ve come for, my 2025 word of the year. 

But first, let me honor a previous self by referencing an old blog post where I mentioned this same concept. (Read that post here!) Ironically, it took me almost three years to sit down and publish this exact blog post. Having this blog and tending to it has really been a blessing because it allows me to reflect on where I’ve come from, how my mind, relationship with God, and even my relationship with myself has grown. It’s a living reflection of my life, and it’s amazing when things come full circle like they’ve been doing. 

Consistency. 

That’s my word of the year. I know, I keep saying that I’m doing this and I’m doing that, but remember what I said at the beginning of the post: I’m working on doing the work versus making it perfect. I accept that some version of perfection inevitably comes through the iterations and repetitions of sticking to the script. That one day of affirmations ain’t gone change my reality. That if I am really the Mommy Mogul, why am I not committing every day to that version of reality?That’s through writing my blog consistently, developing my site, creating and posting more content, and just putting myself out there.

2025 is my year to shine but not burn out. I want not to be a flame but the sun, every burning, yet taking my periods away from the spotlight when needed. Y’all know I love a metaphor, but I will be listening to my 2019-2022 version of self by practicing the 3 C’s: completion, commitment, and consistency. 

Comment below, or let me know what your 2025 word of the year will be on my socials. Make sure to join the mailing list to get notified of new blog posts and other Life With Lexis Kai tings, because I am committed to riding this thing till the wheels fall off, ya hear me!

As always, I love you to life, and I’m grateful for another year of sharing my life’s journey with you!

Cousin Lex